Husbands and Men with Successful Godly Marriages Make These Six Priorities
PRIORITY ONE: Discover God’s Design for Marriage
We must understand that every marriage is intended to be a masterpiece reflecting THE marriage between God and His people. Marriage is the most frequent metaphor used in the Bible to describe God’s relationship with His people. In fact, writing to the Ephesians, Paul called marriage a “profound mystery” because it is a picture of “Christ and the church.”
PRIORITY TWO: Commit to a Covenant Marriage
Today’s civil marriages are much like business contracts—easy to get into and easy to get out of. God’s covenant with His people was a promise to remain eternally faithful even if His people weren’t faithful in return. In covenant marriage, both spouses are committed for a lifetime—in sickness and health, for better or worse. They don’t threaten divorce or consider it as an option.
PRIORITY THREE: Pursue a Passionate Marriage
Couples aren’t supposed to just stick it out and find a way to make their marriages sur vive. God calls us to pursue a passionate, thriving marriage. The Song of Solomon expresses the kind of love, joy and celebration God designed for marriage. That passion is built on much more than infatuation and sexual desire. It is rooted in the physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy God created couples to experience as a foretaste of the eternal unity, communion and intimacy we can have with God.
PRIORITY FOUR: Become Heroic in Marriage
Christ made the ultimate sacrifice to rescue humanity. Writing to the Ephesians, Paul connected Christ’s sacrifice directly to marriage: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25) and “Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands” (Ephesians 5:24). In other words, mutual submission to one another requires giving up our own interests to heroically serve the other person.
PRIORITY FIVE: Fight for Your Marriage
Every couple will mess up. Too often, however, they also choose to give up. Throughout scripture, God fights for His relationship with His people, remaining faithful in the face of unfaithfulness. He forgives again and again. No couple can avoid strife and arguments, but we can avoid giving the “devil a foothold” in our marriages by keeping short accounts and quickly restoring the relationship regardless of what happens.
PRIORITY SIX: Take Initiative
Men are called to move beyond passivity by taking initiative when it comes to nurturing a strong marriage. Take advantage of the ideas below to get started now.
It Starts At Home by Kurt Bruner and Steve Stroope Explains why marriage is a key path of our spiritual formation and provides practical advice for intentional couples.
The Marriage Masterpiece by Al Janssen Unveils the beauty of God’s design for ever y marriage.
Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs Discusses a powerful biblical model for each spouse understanding and meeting the other’s most deeply felt need.
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman How to discover/serve your spouse’s unique love language.
A Celebration of Sex by Dr. Douglas Rosenau Is a guide to enjoying God’s gift of sexual intimacy.
Simply Romantic Nights Kit from Family Life Ministries Discover intimacy in a new light using a series of his/her date night ideas
First Christian Church Resources
First Christian Church offers a variety of Life Groups and other opportunities for you to learn, grow and connect in community with others who are in the same life season. Stop by the Welcome Center on Sunday to talk with someone who can help you get connected with other people and resources.
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